Raipar baadashaah ne landan sthit jaismeen maseeh ke saath apanee asaphal shaadee ke baare mein khulaasa kiya. ek saakshaatkaar mein, unhonne kaha ki ant mein unake beech cheejen bahut gadabad ho gaeen, mukhyatah unake saanskrtik matabhedon ke kaaran. unhonne unakee betee jesemee ke baare mein bhee baat kee. baadashaah ne kaha ki isee dauraan unhen pahalee baar painik ataik ka anubhav hua, jisake kaaran unhen peshevar madad lenee padee.
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Lallanatop ke saath ek intaravyoo mein jab unase unakee shaadee aur betee ke baare mein poochha gaya to unhonne kaha ki agar koee ek cheej hai jisake lie vah jeevan mein pooree tarah pratibaddh hain, to vah hai pyaar. unhonne kaha ki jyaadaatar log ausat paida hote hain, lekin jab pyaar aur sneh baantane kee baat aatee hai to unhen ausat se oopar hona chaahie. unhonne kaha, “do teen cheejen toot ke karanee chaahie (jeevan mein mahatvapoorn cheejon ke lie apana sab kuchh dena chaahie).” yah poochhe jaane par ki kya unhonne jaismin ke saath apana sab kuchh de diya, unhonne hansate hue kaha, “haan, lekin toot gaya (yah kaayam nahin rah saka).”
unhonne aage kaha, “ham onalain, phesabuk par mile aur phir ek koman phrend ke jarie jude. hamane ek saal se adhik samay tak det kiya aur phir shaadee kar lee. yah poochhe jaane par ki kya unake maata-pita sahamat hain, unhonne hansate hue kaha, “ghar vaale maan gae. vok banane ke chakkar mein kuchh bole nahin (ve shaayad jagaana chaahate the, isalie unhonne kuchh nahin kaha).” baadashaah ne kaha, “apana uchit parishram karana mahatvapoorn hai. yah jaanchana mahatvapoorn hai ki log kaise sah-astitv mein rah sakate hain. maata-pita aamataur par sahee hote hain. unhonne mujhase poochha ki kya mujhe yakeen hai.”
baadashaah ne kaha ki saanskrtik matabhed ek badee baadha saabit hue. “usaka janm landan mein hua tha, vah vaheen palee-badhee. mere maata-pita ne bhavishyavaanee kee thee ki samasyaen hongee. aur vahee hua. vah sanskrti ke anukool nahin ban sakee aur yah vaastav mein gadabad ho gaya. lekin ham donon ne ise saphal banaane ke lie bahut mehanat kee.” apanee betee ke baare mein poochhe jaane par baadashaah ne kaha, “usaka naam jesemee hai. yah jaismeen ke lie hibroo shabd hai. vah ek eesaee hai.”
baadashaah ne kaha ki vah apanee betee ke saath sampark mein hain, lekin unhonne sveekaar kiya ki shaadee aparipakv logon ke lie nahin hai. “aaj ke din aur yug mein yah ek trutipoorn avadhaarana hai. kuchh sanshodhan karane kee jaroorat hai. bahut dabaav hai. ek nishchit star kee paripakvata praapt karane ke baad aur is baare mein kaaphee der tak sochane ke baad hee shaadee karanee chaahie. ham bahut jaldee shaadee kar lete hain, lekin nissandeh, isake jaivik kaaran bhee hote hain. lekin agar aap behad aashvast hain to aapako shaadee kar lenee chaahie, anyatha aap sanstha ka anaadar kar rahe hain… kisee raay vaale vyakti ke saath rahana ek poornakaalik kaam hai.